Erasing the stigma

October 18, 2013

The chants rang through the cold October night air.

Take Back the Night

鈥淲hat do we want? Safe streets! When do we want it? Now!鈥
鈥淭wo-four-six-eight鈥擭o more violence; no more rape.鈥
鈥淧eople unite! Take back the night.鈥

Students, staff, faculty and members of the community came together Thursday night for the annual Take Back the Night rally. The event鈥攐rganized by the Women鈥檚 Resource Center, Women in Learning and Leadership (WILL) and Inkster鈥檚 Delta Sigma Theta chapter鈥攊s designed to urge the community to take a stand against domestic violence and sexual assault and create a supportive environment in which survivors can share their stories.

Keynote speaker Holly Rider Milkovich, director of U-M鈥檚 Sexual Assault Prevention and Awareness Center (SAPAC) in Ann Arbor, told the crowd of nearly 150 campus and community members that erasing the stigma鈥攖hat somehow an attack is the victim鈥檚 fault鈥攊s the single greatest way to change the system.

鈥淭he most profound piece of advocacy that you can do is seek to shift that cultural assumption that a sexual assault is a survivor鈥檚 responsibility to have prevented; to seek to shift the way we think about this crime and place the full responsibility on those who make the deliberate choice to sexually assault another person.鈥

Along with the keynote address, the event included spoken word performances and a march around campus and The Union at Dearborn.

鈥淭ake Back the Night is a safe place for survivors to not only share their experiences but also to bring awareness to the issue,鈥 said student organizer Benita Robinson. 鈥淭heir experiences are not just their own experiences here. We all share the experiences together.鈥

They are experiences familiar to many in the community. According to Robinson, nearly one in four women is a victim of domestic violence each year and one in six has experienced a sexual assault or attempted sexual assault.

鈥淐oming together tonight is a way of saying that in this community we are testifying against the violence that is perpetrated against women in America,鈥 said Stanley E. Henderson, vice chancellor for enrollment management and student life. 鈥淚 cannot think of any other event that we do on campus that is more emblematic of being a community than Take Back the Night.鈥

Tiffany Marra, director of WILL, said before the event that in light of the statistics, survivor empowerment is key.

鈥淭here is such a stigma attached to survivors of these crimes,鈥 she said. 鈥淏ut we want others to know they never have to be afraid to report; they don鈥檛 have to go through the experience alone.鈥

After the march, the evening concluded with survivors鈥 stories.

鈥淏y sharing stories, survivors show that domestic violence and sexual assault cross all socioeconomic, cultural and racial boundaries,鈥 Marra said. 鈥淎nd it gives survivors an opportunity to say, 鈥業 am strong and powerful. I am not a victim; I鈥檓 a survivor.鈥欌